15th Mar, 2016
t has been 5 months since Wole saw his girlfriend, Kunmi. Been the longest time apart, they have both engaged in marathons of sexting. Finally, Wole gets a break and pays Kunmi a surprise visit. They barely got out of the car before they started “playing”. They were lost in the moment and Wole didn’t get to wear a condom. Now, the did is done!
Wole: Baby, please would you take a pill since I didn’t wear a condom.
Kunmi: Did you cum inside me? If you did, I might use but if you didn’t, I aint using, because it would scatter my cycle and I can’t deal with that.
Wole: I don’t think I did, I pulled out before Cuming, but I think you should just use.
Kunmi: Baby!!! I would go and rinse up, don’t worry we would be fine.
Well, quite a number of people know how this usually ends. 4 weeks later, Kunmi would bell Wole to break the news that she hasn’t seen her period.
Kunmi: Are you sure you didn’t cum inside me?
Of course, Wole would give the same reply and start planning his exit strategy or looking for a Medical Personnel to help in eliminating the pregnancy.
If he decides to exit, she is on her own, if he gets a Medical personnel, she is still on her own because of the possible complications of this procedure especially when done by a quack.
It really isn’t Wole’s fault, Wole like most guys can ejaculate “without really feeling” it or even ejaculate a little before pulling out. As a lady, you owe it to yourself to do what is right and best for your body. If you can't get him to wear a condom, then get ready to pop a pill or handle whatever comes up.
There are a number of contraceptives that can be used hours to days after unprotected sex.
The commonest is Postinor 2. It is effective if used within 72hours of unprotected sex. Effectiveness reduces every 24hours after unprotected sex. Some say it can still be used up to 96-120 hours but the effectiveness is very low.
The two pills are used 10-12 hours apart. Studies show that using the two tablets at once is as effective.
It is associated with some side effects such as diarrhea, dizziness, vomiting, breast tenderness, cramps, absence of menstrual periods, heavy/prolong periods, erratic bleeding, weight gain, etc. If you vomit the pill, please see a Doctor.
I don’t think any medication is more abused than this pill. Some ladies pop it like it is vitamin C.
Postinor 2 is to be used only in emergencies, if you happen to encounter “emergencies” every week, well, please check yourself into a family planning clinic and pick a suitable contraceptive. After using the pill, you are to abstain from unprotected sex for weeks. If postinor 2 is taken more than once during a cycle, it could affect the cycle and may not be effective in preventing a pregnancy1. It would not also protect you against Herpes (no known cure), genital warts, pelvic inflammatory disease and other sexually transmitted infections.
Note: As stated in an earlier article “condoms are for babies”, postinor 2 doesn’t cause an abortion, if there is already an embryo, well, start picking baby names and daycares.
So could all these heartache and worry be prevented? Of course!
Abstain from unprotected sex, if you can’t, use a condom, if you can’t, just take a walk together or watch CNN and bond.
Stay tuned for more on Postinor 2 and other useful emergency contraceptives.
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